I ran across this little tidbit some years back while reading a book on being a good manger. It has stayed with me over the years. I find that it is a good practice for all relations, not just in the work place. I share it with you:
H ear and understand me.
E ven if you disagree, please don’t make me wrong.
A cknowledge the greatness within me.
R emember to look for my loving intentions.
T ell me the truth with compassion.